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Let’s face it, parenthood is an incredible adventure, but it’s also a marathon, not a sprint. Between endless nappy changes, school runs, and the constant symphony of “Mum!” and “Dad!”, it’s easy to lose sight of the couple you were before becoming parents. I am passionate about crafting unforgettable experiences, and that includes prioritising the health and happiness of families as a whole.

One strategy that’s worked wonders for me (and many of my clients!) is the concept of an annual kid-free holiday. This may sound radical to some, but for me, it’s become an essential part of maintaining a strong and fulfilling relationship with my husband, Josh. Now, before you envision me leaving our darling offspring on a deserted island (I assure you, no children were harmed in the creation of this travel philosophy!), let’s clarify. My kids get to experience countless adventures throughout the year, from weekend getaways to epic overseas trips. But, amidst the chaos of packed lunches, sunscreen battles, and bedtime songs, it’s easy for couples to lose sight of that pre-child spark.

Over the years, we’ve been fortunate enough to experience a number of unforgettable child-free adventures that rekindled the romance and sense of wonder that first brought Josh and I together. Here’s a taste of what we’ve been up to without the kids since 2019:

• Heli-Fishing Pub Crawl in Darwin: Soaring over the stunning landscapes of Australia’s Top End before indulging in a thrilling fishing & pub crawl expedition? Pure adrenaline-fueled magic!
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• Opulent stay in Singapore: We traded sandy toes for rooftop infinity pools at the iconic Marina Bay Sands, soaking in the city’s dazzling skyline and indulging in luxurious pampering.
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• Maldivian Bliss: Imagine turquoise waters lapping at your doorstep, palm trees swaying gently in the breeze, and complete privacy in your own overwater bungalow. Paradise found!
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• Kenyan Safari Adventure: Witnessing the awe-inspiring wildlife of Kenya on a thrilling safari was an experience that brought us closer to nature and to each other.
• Patagonian Delights: Exploring the majestic glaciers and soaking in the rejuvenating hot springs of Chile was a truly unforgettable journey for the soul.
• Qatari Thrills: Sandboarding down towering dunes in Qatar was an exhilarating adventure that left us breathless (both from the excitement and the desert winds!).

These are just a few of the incredible child-free adventures we’ve embarked on – and we’re not stopping there! Next on the horizon: swimming with majestic whale sharks in Exmouth.

Why a Kid-Free Holiday Matters

Remember, a kid-free vacation isn’t about neglecting your children. It’s about making a conscious effort to nurture your relationship and return home feeling recharged and ready to face the joys (and challenges!) of parenthood with renewed energy and a stronger bond.

Here’s why I believe that taking a kid-free vacation can be incredibly beneficial for both parents and children:

• Reconnecting as a Couple: Parenting is all-consuming, and sometimes, the conversations you have with your partner revolve solely around logistics and schedules. A kid-free getaway allows you to reconnect as a couple, rekindle the spark, and rediscover the joy of simply being “Kel & Josh” again.
• Prioritising Your Relationship: Strong parental relationships lead to happy and well-adjusted children. By taking the time to nurture your bond as a couple, you’ll return home feeling refreshed and ready to tackle the challenges and joys of parenthood with renewed energy. Remember, happy parents make happy kids!
• Setting a Positive Example: By prioritising your relationship, you’re sending a powerful message to your children about the importance of love, commitment, and maintaining a healthy partnership.

Making it Work: Planning and Preparation

Of course, a kid-free holiday requires some planning and preparation. Here are a few tips to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience for everyone:

• Communicate with Your Kids: Be honest and upfront with your children about your plans. Explain why this time is important for you and your partner, and involve them in the planning process by choosing fun activities to do while you’re away.
• Find the Right Timing: Choose a time that works for your family and schedules. Consider school holidays or times when grandparents or trusted friends can offer childcare support.
• Plan Activities You Love: This is your time to reconnect and unwind! Whether it’s exploring a new city, indulging in a luxurious spa retreat, or simply relaxing on a secluded beach, choose activities that you both enjoy and will leave you feeling rejuvenated.
• The Secret Ingredient: A Supportive Village. Of course, none of these incredible experiences would be possible without the amazing support network we have around us. We’re incredibly blessed to have grandparents who actively participate in their grandchildren’s lives. Their willingness to step in and provide loving care allows us to have that precious time to reconnect and recharge as a couple. Remember, with wonderful family support, your children will be well cared for and excited to see you upon your return.

A Family that Travels Together, Grows Together (and Sometimes, Travels Separately!)

Traveling as a family is an incredible way to create lasting memories. But taking a kid-free vacation can also be a valuable tool in nurturing your relationship with your partner. Remember, strong parents make strong families!

I understand the unique needs of families and can help you craft the perfect holiday, whether it’s an unforgettable family adventure or a much-needed kid-free escape. Let me help you create a travel plan that fosters connection, rejuvenation, and lasting memories for the whole family.